For our family, the motto has always been simple: Live Now.
There will always be something else the money could go toward (which is always true!). But my husband Jim and I decided early on that getting everyone moving in the same direction for a week or two is priceless. Because our kids wouldn't stay under our roof forever, we made shared travel a priority from the beginning.
When a milestone birthday was approaching, I realized I did not want a 3-hour party where you barely get five real minutes with anyone. Instead, I celebrated with four one-on-one trips: exploring coastal New England with Jim, Disneyland in California with Eli, canyon hiking out West with Ava, and a sunny Bahamas cruise with my mom. Those one-on-one memories proved what I believe at my core: travel is about connection, not checking boxes.
With a background in public finance and municipal administration, I naturally see the world through systems, data, and spreadsheets. But in travel, having a solid spreadsheet isn't about being rigid - it’s what creates Planned Spontaneity.
When your dining is locked in, your park strategy is mathematically sound, and your cabin is placed away from the noisy decks, you have the freedom to completely unplug and be present with the people you love.
Great travel planning is tested when life throws a curveball. In October 2020, we had a detailed, two-week European vacation booked that was months in the making. When the world paused, I tracked down every single refund, we bought a camper, and we pivoted into three cross-country road trips over the next year.
I learned firsthand that when plans change, having a resourceful advocate in your corner makes all the difference.
When I am not mapping out travel strategies, you will find me tending my flower garden, riding my bike along the local trails in Cumberland, or finding any excuse to build a really good spreadsheet.
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